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bowhunter1023
11-24-2008, 09:48 AM
“If you set goals that you consistently fall short of; in reality you are setting yourself up to be a failure…”

In the struggle to form a new identity in the post-Deuce era, I found solace in the words above. I have failed to reach the one goal I have worked so hard for these past few years; I was holding out for a 140” buck and it had to be with the old stick and string. When I decided to stop at nothing in order to reach that goal, I had no idea the stress it would put me under both mentally and physically. It has been a four year journey with ups and downs that would rival the best of roller-coasters. In the end, failing to reach a “simple” goal turned into a life changing ride and last night, it all finally made sense…

The Wallow of Self-Pity

“Maybe I should stay home. There is plenty I could do here and I’m already running late…” There I stood in the shower engaging in another internal battle in the midst of my fourth straight season that seemed destine for failure. I had already hunted over 30 times and logged over 130 hours on stand with nothing to show for it but the passing of a 125” 10-point mere hours before I came face to face with Deuce on the wall of a gas station. I wasn’t showering. I was wallowing in self-pity…

“No. Do you remember what happened last year when you stayed home and felt sorry for yourself?” How could I ever forget that moment? There is nothing like using a trail camera to get photos of all the great wildlife in your area. But when it shows you that your dream buck walked within 30 yards of your stand when you were not there, you want to destroy ever camera you can get your hands on! If I don’t learn from the bad, how can I ever be there for the good?

“You’re going. Wash up and let’s get out of here. You never know what will happen and you know that is the truth. So get moving…” As my internal struggle came to a close, I began to feel like maybe today could be the day. After all, both my dad and the neighbor had been seeing a big buck working under my stand behind the house. It is only 11 acres. But it is the right 11 acres. I knew it was a good evening spot and I couldn’t help but have some confidence in what I was doing for the first time in weeks…

Where did he come from?

At 3 o’clock, I pulled into my parent’s driveway and fired up my smoker. After getting dressed, packing my bag, and smoking up, I head off for my stand. As I was walking through the cattle field, I stopped to mess with the button buck that has befriended our cattle and now spends most his time inside our 3 acre enclosure. I finally decided I had had enough fun and time was of the essence. I wasted little time covering the 300 yards between the button buck and my stand and by 3:25, I was in my stand.

After I got my bow ready and on the hanger, I pulled on my sweatshirt and bibs. I stopped to range a few spots and then grabbed my gloves and facemask. I pulled on my gloves and stopped to scan my surroundings, all was clear so I grabbed my facemask and put it on under my hat. I was all geared up and ready for what I hoped would be a solid two hour hunt. It was time to take a seat…

“Snap!”

Not ten seconds after taking a seat and going into “Hunt Mode”, I knew I had company and it was directly downwind. I turned and looked over my right shoulder and about fell out of my treestand! The last thing I expected to see was a buck that soon, and coming from that direction. How in the world I did not jump this deer, I will never know. I went through the gate at the head of the draw he came from and I was now sitting at the exit of the draw and the total distance between the two, is not more than a 125 yards.

There he stood at 20 yards, eye-level, behind my tree and sniffed the air trying to figure out who/what was in his neighborhood. I was able to stand up against the tree and as he dropped his head to sniff the leaves, I was able to get my bow off the hanger and get turned towards him. At this point, a million thoughts rant through my head in a matter of a few seconds. “He’s not big enough…But he is mature…Man, he is busted up… And look at that mass…Dude, get the monkey off your back and move on.” That last thought was all it took to end this buck’s career…

By this point, he had been downwind for over a minute and he decided it was time to move on. He started to circle me in order to cross the creek at 40 yards instead of the 20 he probably would have had the wind been in my favor. I came to full draw and as I started to settle the pin, I looked down and saw my cam resting on my pack. “You have to be kidding me! What was I going to do now?” I bleated twice and he wouldn’t stop, so I upped the volume and he stopped quartering-away at 32 yards. I settled the pin and stood up on my tippy-toes to give my cam enough room to roll over and I let loose…

All I heard at the shot was the sickening sound of my arrow hitting his stomach and I was instantly scared. I was already starting to go through a mental check list for the tough tracking job I was expecting, when he stopped on the other side of the creek 40 yards from the shot. I could see him standing there and I was doing my best to get my binocs out of my pack, when he went head over rear-end and piled up in the creek. "Holy cow! I just smoked him!!!

The neighborhood bully…

It didn’t take me long to gather up my gear and get out of my tree. As I walked up on him, I realized he was bigger than I had first thought and the shot was on the money. He has a broken brow-tine, a broken kicker that looks to have been 4-5” long that would have came off the bottom of his left-G2, which was also broke in half, and his right G2 was snapped clean off. He had a split-brow and great mass. Overall, he had nine scorable points. He also sported a few scars I believe came from fighting. This guy was definitely a scrapper. And the shot? Well, it went in off the back rib, cutting the liver in half and cutting a huge chunk off his off-side lung, and exited behind the front shoulder. I did catch his stomach, but the Rage did its job and he never stood a chance…

When I took him to the check station, I ran into a guy that lives on my parent’s road and he told me had seen this buck in the same field I had seen my ’04 buck in before I killed him. The genetics are eerily familiar and I wonder how much they really do have in common. He told me that he had seen him before he was all busted up and from the sounds of it, he would have grossed in the upper 120’s before busting off everything. Score was just not going to do this guy justice.

In the end…

So for the fourth season in a row, I failed to reach my goal and I guess that makes me a failure to some degree. But, I am willing to accept that for the first time in four years. The journey that has been this four-year quest, as shown me several things and this hunt proved to me the one thing I always need to remember: It can happen at any moment. I consider myself to be a very blessed man and I believe that I was supposed to shoot this buck. I was given the gift of a mature whitetail with a bow yesterday, but I got so much more from it than just a decent set of antlers. I was given a clean slate and renewed hope. I remembered last night why I do what I do and why I love it so much.

I feel like a new man and a new bowhunter. This buck is a blessing and I will always be grateful for our encounter. He breaks the rule I set for putting bucks on the wall. But when I walk past him in the living room in the years to come, I’ll know that he represents the turning point in my bowhunting career. “That’ll do pig. That’ll do…”

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LogansDad
11-24-2008, 10:01 AM
Congrats 1023, sounds like a trophy to me.

Cal923
11-24-2008, 10:11 AM
Great story and proof not all trophy's are measured in inches... congrats

OhioHunter88
11-24-2008, 10:15 AM
Congrads Jesse, unfortunetly i cant view the pics right now. Congrads, you deserve a buck kill.

Hoytmania
11-24-2008, 10:16 AM
Way to go on the buck and the personal breakthrough. I want you to do me a favor. Everytime there is a failed goal. There is a reason you did not get that goal. It was not the true goal. As much as you think it was it wasn't. So what I want you to do is take some time and sit down by yourself with a pen and piece of paper. Start thinking about all the things you did accomplish while trying to get the goal you thought you wanted. As you go through this process you will find that once you hit a certain accomplishment you spirit kinda checked out. Therefore it didn't want to keep going for the bigger goal.

Once you find out what it is you really did accomplish you can lift your spirit and not feel like a somewhat failure for not getting your goal that you did set. This wiil allow you to set some new goals with some good standards.

I am glad to hear you growing as a bowhunter and as a man. It is great to hear and share these great stories. It is so true that hunting is so much more than just hunting. Please PM me after trying this process and let me know what you find out.

Congrats again on the deer.

traphunter
11-24-2008, 10:17 AM
If not shooting a mature buck every year makes you a failure, then I must be doomed. I don't know many people that would think twice about shooting that buck. Good deer.

5Cent
11-24-2008, 10:18 AM
That a' boy! Wish I could see the pics at work, but good story!

jackalope
11-24-2008, 10:20 AM
Great story.. I was going to say use them as rattling horns but it would just sound like BONK BONK ----BONK BONK---- bonk...... If there is some solace to the story look at the mass on that bad boy, and then try to imagine what deer busted him all up like that...

Big H
11-24-2008, 10:20 AM
Congratulations Jesse, great mass on that guy.

ohiobowhntr1
11-24-2008, 10:25 AM
Great story and seems my motto for this year could have worked for you too.. I kept telling myself it only takes 20 seconds to happen so be there when it happens. Good point Cal about the trophy not being measured in inches.

archer1983
11-24-2008, 10:36 AM
Great job 1023! That thing has awesome mass. I wouldnt be ashamed of him at all!

rgecko23
11-24-2008, 10:39 AM
Jesse,

Fist of all congrats on the buck...hes got some mass. Be proud of that deer, you have a posative look on things and that is good. Not everyone gets a chance at the deer that you have had around you and had the chance to hunt.

Can you imagine what the buck looks like that he has been fighting with?

CritterGitter
11-24-2008, 10:44 AM
Congratulations Jesse! Good to hear. I can't wait to get home and see the pics tonight.

Kaiser878
11-24-2008, 10:45 AM
HOLY SHAT!!! That thing is sporting some mass, let me tell ya!!! Awesome buck my friend! Congrats on breaking a trend that has haunted you for 4 years! That deer is nothing to turn your head about! I wonder how old he is??? Now its time to kill daffy!

steveOh
11-24-2008, 10:51 AM
Congrats on your buck 1023....love those main beams..
steveOh

Thunderflight
11-24-2008, 11:06 AM
Way to go Jesse!!

deerjunkie
11-24-2008, 11:21 AM
Now I know exactly what you meant by the text you sent me...."Old gnarly deer down". He's a stud dude, congrats!!!!

swantucky
11-24-2008, 11:29 AM
Great buck jesse!!

Siman08/OH
11-24-2008, 11:56 AM
Good stuff Jesse, i like the Babe quote

deerhunt45
11-24-2008, 11:57 AM
Congrats Jesse :bouncy: :D :coolgleamA:

bowhunter1023
11-24-2008, 11:57 AM
Thanks fellas...

They hung him up and weighed him for me before I left. 181 pounds was his dressed weight. He was hanging next to a mature 8-point that I would guess was close to 130" and he dwarfed that deer body wise. He was hanging off both sides of the back rack of the four-wheeler.

I want to say he was 4.5, but I really have no way of telling for sure until I get him back and have the jaw pulled. If he was 3.5, part of me will wish I had let him walk just on the off chance I could see him again. They guy that saw him this year said he thought the G2's where in the 9-10" range. He is definitely a cool looking deer.

What amazes me most, is that I have never seen or heard a serious buck fight. For him to have broken four points, he was in at least one or more knock-down-drag-outs and that is incredible. I have never seen a buck that busted up around here. I would have loved to have encountered him with a decoy. Can you imagine him coming unglued on that deke?!? I bet a snort-wheeze would have pissed him off something fierce...

Kaiser878
11-24-2008, 12:04 PM
Thanks fellas...

They hung him up and weighed him for me before I left. 181 pounds was his dressed weight. He was hanging next to a mature 8-point that I would guess was close to 130" and he dwarfed that deer body wise. He was hanging off both sides of the back rack of the four-wheeler.

I want to say he was 4.5, but I really have no way of telling for sure until I get him back and have the jaw pulled. If he was 3.5, part of me will wish I had let him walk just on the off chance I could see him again. They guy that saw him this year said he thought the G2's where in the 9-10" range. He is definitely a cool looking deer.

What amazes me most, is that I have never seen or heard a serious buck fight. For him to have broken four points, he was in at least one or more knock-down-drag-outs and that is incredible. I have never seen a buck that busted up around here. I would have loved to have encountered him with a decoy. Can you imagine him coming unglued on that deke?!? I bet a snort-wheeze would have pissed him off something fierce...

I told you those Rage 2 blades were BA!

deerhunt45
11-24-2008, 12:07 PM
I told you those Rage 2 blades were BA!

I missed that in the original post...that's pretty cool Jesse :whistle: :D

TripleA88
11-24-2008, 12:13 PM
Congrats, nice buck!

Duffy
11-24-2008, 12:17 PM
Nice job. Congratulations!

bowhunter1023
11-24-2008, 12:18 PM
I missed that in the original post...that's pretty cool Jesse :whistle: :D

Thank you sir. ;)

Shadow
11-24-2008, 12:26 PM
Sweet Redemtion!!

Somebody get this guy a book deal!! Seriously, you should start compiling these thoughts and revelations and get them in print. Another enjoyable story!!

BuckSlayer
11-24-2008, 12:31 PM
Congrats on a well deserved buck, great mass on him!!

scout0324
11-24-2008, 12:39 PM
Nice! I bet he looked like a horse coming at you through the woods!

oxmos
11-24-2008, 01:12 PM
That's one massive buck, both in antlers and body size. Congrats!

SouthernOhio#9
11-24-2008, 01:20 PM
Congrats. That buck sure does have some great mass on it's main beams! Big Body too. Great job.

TritonBill
11-24-2008, 01:36 PM
Nice Deer Jess! Someday I'll shoot one that big, for now I'll just keep hoping.

ohiosam
11-24-2008, 02:22 PM
Jesse,
Nice buck! He's a great way to move on from everything that happened recently.

HuntNWOHIO
11-24-2008, 02:49 PM
Great mass on a great mature buck. Congratulations!

Bullhead
11-24-2008, 03:05 PM
Great story to tell of that wall hanger- Talk about sitting around and throwing a couple back and listening to what led up to you shooting this one- pretty good stuff :D

uncle odie
11-24-2008, 03:11 PM
Congrats to you Jessie!! nice buck, way to hang in there after all that has happened. Good Job!

coonskinner
11-24-2008, 03:29 PM
congrats...:D

benehunter
11-24-2008, 04:50 PM
Congrats on that old boy.

1023,

Remember you are not setting business goals. Our goals in this sport depend on many factors we have no control over. It looks to me that you did everything in your control to get the job done but things outside your control made you change your plans. And not just that, but it only took you a week after you found out about Deuce to change the plans and get the job done. To me, that right there is a big accomplishment.

And it's not like you shot at a doe to later find out it was a young 8pt.

Now go and set up your next year goals. Good luck!!!

davies2097
11-24-2008, 05:23 PM
Way to go team mate! Thats one hell of a deer! I'm glad you were able to take this hog! I know you have probably been going through a whirl wind of emotions this past week with the loss of Duece, but this buck is definetly something to be proud of! Way to go!:bouncy:

epe
11-24-2008, 05:45 PM
Congrats man! Things gotta lota mass. Funny how that area really holds onto its gentics huh? Congrats again.

wirtbowhunter
11-24-2008, 07:19 PM
Congrats on a heavy horned buck!!

Beentown
11-24-2008, 07:41 PM
Way to go man. Still waiting on my end. I have officially lowered my threshold this year. I have some good deer around but my time is going to be short in the woods because of work now. Thanks for the read.

Congrats,

Beentown

bowhunter1023
11-24-2008, 08:12 PM
I wanted to say "Thank You" again to everyone for the kinds words and the support you have provided in this thread and in the thread about Deuce this past week. Hunters are the greatest group of people on Earth and there are bunch of good ones on this site. I have seen members of this forum do things in the sport of bowhunting, and now in waterfowling, that you will not find on the street. It is a brotherhood that I am proud to belong to. I'm still learning to except the bad that comes with all the good, but I'll get there. But no matter what kind of debates, arguments, or piss-off's that we get into on this site, there are still some damn fine dudes on this website and I for one, appreciate the hell out of that.

Thank you...

Florida Buckeye
11-24-2008, 08:35 PM
"The best 20 seconds of your life was in your Tree Stand... And the best 20 seconds in your Tree Stand has bettered your life!"

Great Story, Great Buck!

Congrats.

:cool:

1finepistolero
11-24-2008, 08:46 PM
Great deer, great story. Congrats

uglykat26
11-24-2008, 08:56 PM
wow nice beams , love the mass congrats man

Lance
11-24-2008, 10:49 PM
Congrats, nice buck!

ap0317ah
11-25-2008, 02:25 AM
Congrats Jesse, thats one gnarly fighter buck. He has cool looking rack as well. Way to stick in there a lot of guys look to you for leadership and ideas myself included, even though we have not met.
Congrats again.
Tom
Id call him the balboa buck

Matt D
11-25-2008, 05:50 PM
Great character on that guy. Congrats on killing a mature animal. You just never know what is going to happen and that is what makes this sport so great!

Good Job!

TheCream
11-25-2008, 07:04 PM
Congrats, buddy! :D

Woodland
11-25-2008, 07:23 PM
Way to go Jesse. He does have some nice thick beams on him.

Talltines
11-25-2008, 11:00 PM
Congrats to you Jesse,and as always, love the stories that follows. Look foward to seeing you @ deer camp this week.Saturday will be the Perch and walleye fry at my cabin. See you then!!!